Hello 2020!

2019 was a wild year for me. I applied to law schools, accepted a full scholarship to Mercer, graduated from the University of Georgia, had an internship with the UGA Performing Arts Center, mentored a group of freshmen, gave tours of my favorite school, traveled out of the country, moved to Macon, and started my fall semester at law school.

I am so thankful for all the opportunities 2019 brought me. From new friends to new experiences, I’ve learned a lot about the world and about myself. Here I am, ready to do it all again.

I set some small goals for myself in 2019: go to law school, read 15 books, run a 10k, do yoga every week, learn to meditate, etc. I didn’t meet all of them. I still haven’t run in an official 10k race, and I haven’t done yoga since the summer. Life happens, ya know?

This year I’m setting some new goals, similar to the wishlist I wrote about in my 23rd birthday post. Here’s what I want to do in 2020:

  • Getting onto Law Review at Mercer
  • Get into the top 25% of my class
  • Trying out for mock trial
  • Finish the novel I started writing ages ago
  • Buy one piece of art from a local artist to hang in my house
  • Fill up three journals
  • Learn how to needlepoint (or some other artsy thing I haven’t done before!)
  • Take a pottery class
  • Run in a 10k race

What do you want to do in 2020?

I’m 23!

Happy birthday to me! I’m really looking forward to my “Jordan year”!

Here’s what I’m hoping 23 brings:

  • Getting onto Law Review at Mercer
  • Completing my 1L year at law school
  • A summer internship
  • Starting my 2L year
  • Lots of time for art and writing
  • Finishing the novel I started writing ages ago
  • Buying one piece of art from a local artist to hang in my house
  • Getting to be a ~real~ professional rather than a young professional
  • Learning how to needlepoint (or some other artsy thing I haven’t done before!)
  • Lots and lots of joy 🙂

What I’m Up To

Happy July! Anybody else feeling like we’re watching red, white, and blue on repeat recently? Go USA!

If you haven’t been keeping up with the news, the women’s U.S. soccer team won the World Cup yesterday, defeating the Netherlands for the win! I’m not the biggest soccer fan, but I’ve tried to pay attention for all the friends that are mega fans. Couldn’t be more proud of our girls!

The Fourth was recently as well, and I spent the day cleaning Will’s house and packing him up for his move to Alabama (hey Will, hope you’re reading this!). I did see a lot of firework boomerangs on Insta though! Well worth it.

I’m prepping for my first year of law school at Mercer, and by prepping I mean trying to get my life together. Since I’m not studying psychology anymore it doesn’t make sense for that to be my blog name anymore. I haven’t finished setting everything up yet, but get ready for some major changes around here!

That’s all for now! Tune in next week for something a little more exhilarating than life updates haha

Happy Memorial Day!

I always think of Memorial Day the official start of summer. The pool opens, temperatures are nice and toasty, and the lightening bugs come out to play. I never really thought about Memorial Day as an actual holiday with actual meaning until this year. Sounds silly, right? But it truly wasn’t until my brother joined the Coast Guard that I actually thought about Memorial Day as a day of thanks. I see so many ads for sales and pools and theme parks and other summer stuff that I tend to forget the real reason for today.

Here are a few quick tidbits about the holiday for those that are interested:

  • Originally called Decoration Day
  • Wasn’t a federal holiday until the 1970’s but started after the Civil War
  • Each year at 3 PM on Memorial Day a moment of remembrance occurs
  • Many people decorate the graves of fallen soldiers or pray over their loved ones in the military
  • The first “official” Memorial Day was held in Waterloo, New York when, in 1968, the city closed its shops and decorated graves with flags
  • We now use the date to remember all fallen soldiers, not just those that died during a specific battle or of natural causes after their service

And for those you of that are interested in hitting up some iconic Memorial Day sales, here’s a list:

  • Target sale on clothing and furniture
  • Kawaii Pen Shop site wide sale
  • Walmart (general sale off most things in store)
  • Old Navy 50% off clothing for the family
  • Wayfair 30-75% off site wide
  • Basically all the big businesses are having sales right now, so rather than spam you with the world’s longest list I’ll direct you -> here

See what I mean when I say I get distracted by all the shopping nonsense and forget the reason for the season? If I find the historical timeline for these sale shenanigans, or the economical reason for it, I’ll add an update in the comments:)

Celebrating Lunar New Year at the Botanical Gardens

Will and I went to the State Botanical Gardens in Athens, GA this past weekend as part of our Valentine’s celebration. The gardens are broken up into different sections: the garden house, the greenhouse, the kids area, the trails, and the outdoor cultural gardens. I personally like the greenhouse best. It reminds me of going to the Biltmore House with Will back during our first spring break together. How cute!

This weekend the gardens were decorated for the lunar new year. Chinese lanterns were hung everywhere in the greenhouse. It felt absolutely magical!

There were quite a few educational activities. They were meant for kids, but Will and I checked them out anyways. I taught him how to use chopsticks!

This year’s the year of the pig. Did you know that some American kids are developing British accents because of Peppa Pig? Conversely, did you know that Peppa Pig is banned in China? Crazy, right?

That’s all for now! Zài jiàn!

My Five Love Languages and Acts of Service for Valentine’s Day

A friend turned me on to taking the five love languages quiz at the end of last semester. My top love language is acts of service. While it came as no surprise, it was nice to have some affirmation that I like what I like and I know what makes me happy.

Acts of Service: Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter. Finding ways to serve speaks volumes to the recipient of these acts.

Five Love Letters

Affirmations are always nice (and they’re almost all of my friends’ top love language) and they go right along with acts of service if you’re making Valentine’s Day cards this week!

Delta Gamma got together and made cards for the visually impaired using puffy paint for the braille! If you go into stores, you won’t find many cards for the blind (or any at all if you shop where I shop). Making your own is super easy. Send them to a school for the visually impaired near you! Delta Gamma sent ours to schools in Atlanta.

Another card writing act of service I’ve done recently is through More Love Letters. My group of freshmen and I got together yesterday night to write cards for people going through hard times. More Love Letters is an organization that provides a short story about someone’s hardship (that’s asked for letters, or has had someone ask on their behalf) and an address for people to write notes of encouragement to them. You can find them by clicking here! My Freshman Forum group wrote more than fifteen letters for Joe, Shelby, Regina, Anthony, and Erica.

Those are just two small acts of service to think about this Thursday (or before!). Happy Valentine’s Day y’all!

A Sweet Valentine’s Day

Will and I love cooking and baking together. This Valentine’s Day, our plans are to eat lots of pasta, go ice skating, watch a movie, and then make a bunch of pink cookies! With icing and sprinkles of course 😉

Here are some recipes you all can try out:

Chocolate Covered Cheesecake Bites from Tip Buzz

Frozen smoothie bars from Bakers Royale

Rose Madeleines from Lauren Conrad

Valentine Sugar Cookies from Alice and Lois (these are the one’s Will and I will be making!)

Chocolate Lollipops from Shutterbean

If you’re looking for even more Valentine’s Day inspiration follow my Valentine’s Day Pinterest board (or check back next week for another ~*pink*~ themed post)!

MLK Day

I hope everyone is enjoying this day off of school and (maybe) work. While a lot of people view this as just another day off, I’m grateful for friends and family that encourage me to take the time to educate myself on race, politics, and history. I know this is something I should be doing every single day, but because today is MLK Day I’ve made sure to set aside a moment of introspection and research for myself.

I don’t have all the answers about race in America. I actually don’t have many at all. I’m by no means an expert. I’ve tried hard to listen more than I talk when it comes to the things I don’t fully understand how to talk about. I think the article White People Assume Niceness is the Answer To Racial Inequality. It’s Not. by Robin diAngelo sums up this feeling well in this quote:

I am white. As an academic, consultant and writer on white racial identity and race relations, I speak daily with other white people about the meaning of race in our lives. These conversations are critical because, by virtually every measure, racial inequality persists, and institutions continue to be overwhelmingly controlled by white people. While most of us see ourselves as “not racist”, we continue to reproduce racist outcomes and live segregated lives….If I cannot tell you what it means to be white, I cannot understand what it means not to be white. I will be unable to bear witness to, much less affirm, an alternate racial experience. I will lack the critical thinking and skills to navigate racial tensions in constructive ways…We can begin [to support racial equality] by acknowledging ourselves as racial beings with a particular and limited perspective on race. We can attempt to understand the racial realities of people of color through authentic interaction rather than through the media or through unequal relationships. 

This weekend, I browsed the internet for articles on race in America. I hope you’re not surprised that I found many, many articles, news reports, YouTube videos, Facebook posts, and various other web-based writings on the subject.

I thought this article, talking about the way Americans perceive the word ‘racist’, very interesting. I personally had not thought about that word that way before.

On the other side of the political spectrum, Forbes came out with their own article on racism this time last year.

And to wrap up this week’s post, I have an article for you about Black Burnout. I wasn’t aware that someone else’s definition of burnout could be different than mine. I’d always assumed it was the same feeling, happening for the same reasons, and ending in the same way. I’d read an earlier article from Buzzfeed writer Anne Peterson about millennials being the burnout generation and intensely related to the scenarios and feelings she described. I’m so glad that someone else decided to write a follow up article from their perspective because otherwise I wouldn’t have known there was a difference.

I hope you enjoyed the articles and the discussions they may prompt. Some may find them enlightening, some inflammatory, and others dismissive. Feel free to talk about your thoughts and reactions in the comments section below.

Hello 2019!

While my blog might have gotten off to a rough start this year, my real life has been full of positive change. Here’s what I’m doing in 2019 to make this year the best one yet:

  • Make more art
  • Embrace the unknown (looking at you, law school)
  • Drink more water
  • Take an exercise class
  • Write!
  • Focus on skin care and hair care
  • Read at least three books from a genre I wouldn’t normally choose from

And there you have it! My goals for the new year are almost always flexible and simple. I don’t like attaching numbers to things, except for maybe how many books I want to read. This “freeform” type of resolution making helps me actually want to make some changes. I get to do it at my own pace, however often, whether that’s two minutes every day or twenty hours in one sitting.

Do you have any goals for 2019? Have you changed them or come up with new ones in the past two weeks?